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I dont think thats true about the people saying not to do it have great lives, I bet many thought of killing themselves at one time or another, most people have, they may not admit it but they have, and many have even tried. as for the topic,, well, everyone has someone, but if they choose to live on the streets they left their family behind (may just be a sister or a cousin but there is always someone) and when they do kill themselves its over for them but when the people who care for them find out its those people who suffer. Killing ones self ends all the depression, yea thats true, its over for you, but for the person who finds your body (even if they dont know you) it will stick with them for life. Suicide hurts whoever is left in the world not the person who does it (well it hurts them too becuase they can get out of the depression and bad situation, especially in america, go to news sites about places like africa and parts of india and you will see people have it much worse off then we do and they keep going) . But on another note, if a person is diognosed with a illness that will definately take their life in say a year or less, there is no cure and all they have to look forward to is pain and stuff (not only for them but for their families) I believe they should have the right to go to a dr and be put to sleep BUT I also believe they need to tell their families and get their backing on this. if you are going to die and it will be slow and painful you should be able to choose to just do it sooner. Dr kavorkian in my book was a awsome person, he helped the suffering stop suffering. of cource depending on religouse beliefs, many believe it is a sin to kill yourself and the one sin that you wont be forgiven for (mainly cause you cant ask for forgiveness afterwards cause your dead) so for those people it is definatly not a option. For people who have familys (parents/spouces/kids whatever) they should put their family before themselves because they will hurt them so badly and it will be with those people forever, they will be causeing suffering for people they love and so they should think of others before themselves. Imagine walking in and finding your mom/dad/siblings whoever, dead from suicide, how would you feel? you would ask yourself what you did wrong that they couldnt live for you, you would want to know why for the rest of your life, you would feel guilty even if there is no guilt that should be on you and sometimes these people will also kill themselves because they cant live with the pain, so in your suicie you also killed another human being, one you may have loved. Life is hard sometimes, and sometimes its hard for a long time, but one day you will see some good, I know teens experience a lot of depression, if they hang on and grow up, most times they will get a job, fall in love, and have a baby, when you look at that baby for the first time you will realize how preciouce life is, how beautiful it can be, and that your life had meaning and will fromk that moment on because you made a beautiful child and its up to you to raise that child, but had you killed yourself before this happens you will never know that pure joy.
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