Diaper Fetish, Discussion about this fetish

A diaper fetish, like any other fetish, is a fixation on something that arouses the person sexually.

"Diaper fetish" is a blanket label used on anyone who wears diapers without an actual need to. Practioners call ourselves a.b.d.l., usually writen either abdl or ab/dl. The initials stand for adult baby-diaper lover. Adult babys and diaper lovers are 2 distinct types of diaper wearers (but every person is different, so a person might be purely one or the other or they could be 50%-50% both or any other possible percentage of either one).

A diaper lover is the one that the "diaper fetish" label actually applies to. The wearer gets sexually aroused wearing diapers & they are used in masturbation and/or sexplay.

An adultbaby can also be a diaperlover, but it can't be assumed they are. Adultbaby is a nonsexual practice (by itself). An adultbaby is a person that practices AGE REGRESSION play-role playing that they are a baby or todler. An adult baby acts like a baby or toddler. They might have adult sized baby clothes, drink from a bottle, suck their thumb, play with baby toys-whatever you might associate with babys they might encorporate in their practices. Trauma, depression, stress & most of all feelings of abandonment (often in childhood, but at any age) are the catalysts most cited by ab's as what started their age play. The reasons are simple & Marcy gave them but to make it a little easier for an outsider to understand; If you feel abandoned, becoming a baby or toddler again takes you back to the time when you were most surrounded by loving nurturing people-so it eases feelings of abandonment. Parents or other adults try to protect babies/toddlers and keep them safe-so being a baby/toddler brings back some of those safe & protected feelings.

Diaper wearing might seem bizarre or perverted to an outside observer, it isn't really. It's just another in the many different ways people address their emotional & sexual wellbeing. You'll never have to change someone with a "diaper fetish"'s diaper and an adultbaby wants themself to be babied, so neither involves children in anyway or should create any harsh opinions from outsiders.

If you think someone has a diaper fetish, so what if they do?

BUT If you think someone close to you has a diaper fetish because of trauma & feelings of abandonment, the diapers are irrelevent-you need to help them deal with the trauma & make sure they know you are there & that you haven't abandoned them.

This can apply to babyfurs.

...Well I see you made it Godzillastompmon...that just sounded weird... Oh well, Welcome to the forum and whatnot, and thank you for your clearing up ADBL for those that don't understand what it means ^_^

Thankyou! ^_^ KMD sent me. :)

Well, more people to the new forum is always a good thing ^_^ Did anyone catch my advertisement on BC? Giran's gonna kill me aint he?

Not sure yet sinch he not on the forums yet.

My new diapers came in today!

Well, good. Have fun, and remember to Drink that bottle resposibly! :lol:

^_^! Exactly what I'm doing now! Except....yummy lemonade. :D

Meh, not so much a lemonade fan. If I were to drink from a bottle, I'd go Milk all the way ^_^

Well, I occasionally drink warm milk in my bottle...

Pacifier, Baby Powder, Bottle, and diaper......LIFE IS SWEEEEET!!!!!!!

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Well good, I'm glad you can live out YOUR fantasies :angry:

Diapers aren't a big deal at all. Everyone should try them at least once. Even if there parents are home. (Adds to the excitement of it all)

Thanks but no thanks... I think I'll stick to the 4 (possibly 5) fetishes I have.