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havingbadday
  Posted: Mar 4 2006, 03:40 AM


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Okay here is the situation, my brother is 19 i am 15 he is dating a 16 year old, who is now pregnant by who we think is him but there is another guy. he is going to get tested. that isnt the problem, the problem is she is a controlling bi*ch and i absolutly cannot stand her. If i say anything i am afraid it will cause problems between me and my brother, and i dont want that. I love my brother and he is really not ready for a kid neither is she. but i really dont know what to do. i am really close to blowing up on her. I hate to see my brother being treated like this. he is way better than that. please help me i need to no what to do. Please feel free to let me know.
~Travy
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OhioAngel
Posted: Mar 4 2006, 08:55 AM


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If you really feel strongly about it, maybe you should voice your concerns to your brother, try to do it in a way that isn't going to totally make him mad but let him know that you are concerned.

I went and am still going through a similar situation with my sister right now...although she is 37...but she is with a man that I cannot stand, ended up getting herself pregnant and has a beautiful baby girl...but her BF is a total control freak and he scares me at times. I've voiced my concerns, didn't really change anything cause she claims she is "in love" and my relationship with her is not as close as it used to be but at least she knows where I stand. And my little niece, I let her know (even though she is probably to small to understand), that I am always there for her and that if she ever needs a place to go...I am here.

Let your brother know you are there for him no matter what he decides to do. That you don't want to lose him over this.
I hope things work out for the best and I hope this helped a little.


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havingbadday
Posted: Mar 5 2006, 12:05 AM


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Hey the best thing happen turns out he felt the same way i did. he told her about it and they are split up but he is going to take care of the kid if it is his
THANK YOU
~Travy
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OhioAngel
Posted: Mar 5 2006, 09:12 AM


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I'm so glad to hear that! Good for him to realize that on his own!
Hope things go well and I am glad that he will take that responsibilty if the child turns out to be his!

Take Care!

~Lynn


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Posted: Mar 6 2006, 01:55 AM


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I'm so glad to hear that things worked out. Take care!
~Jason


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I can see you crying, trapped by the endless pain.
Take my hand, I'll be your freind,
Let me hold you and we can go on.
I've felt the darkness too, I want to heal you,
You're not an outcast to me, I know that you are beautiful,
A wounded angel.

Hated by the world, I lie cold and dying.
when I cry, I cry alone,
when I stand, I fall alone.
When I die, is there a scream if no one hears it?


Am I still alive?
I feel so cold.
I wonder, am I still a human, was I ever?
Or did I die long ago?
Someday, I might run across a grave,
under a barren tree, a rope dangling in the cold wind,
blade lying on the headstone,
will I find my own grave? Will I know why I feel so dark, so alone?
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Posted: Mar 26 2006, 02:13 PM


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