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Title: has to be said.


red ring 95 - June 18, 2009 07:30 AM (GMT)
so, you know, the damon leaving and making a new clan.

yea, its sad that we lost him and we wish him luck.

then, you know, the people who left following damon, yea it kinda sucks.

BUT

this might be just me, but i sense a little anger from some people, not going to point fingers or anything, about damon leaving and taking people with him.

damon is a friend to most all of us. he felt it was time to move on, and to lead a clan. he didnt ask for people to follow him, the others made their choices to go, it wasnt his fault.

so, him leaving and people following does kind of suck, but we dont have to act passive aggressive or angry at him for doing what he felt he needed to do. he is a good friend and was a great warlord, and what happened was out of his control.


i just needed to vent, its 2:30 in the morning, im delirious, and ive been reading all the leaving posts and it makes me sad how cold some people are being to the leaving members.

so yea, had to be said.

CyberianWolf - June 18, 2009 08:40 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (red ring 95 @ Jun 18 2009, 01:30 AM)
i just needed to vent, its 2:30 in the morning, im delirious, and ive been reading all the leaving posts and it makes me sad how cold some people are being to the leaving members.

so yea, had to be said.

+1 :yes:

CWolf :sunglasses:

red ring 95 - June 19, 2009 02:44 AM (GMT)
now im up and fully awake and just kind of disgusted by what some people have said to the people leaving. they are friends, doesnt everyone think they deserve to be treated better?

Golden arm42 - June 19, 2009 02:57 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (red ring 95 @ Jun 19 2009, 02:44 AM)
they are friends, doesnt everyone think they deserve to be treated better?

"Friendship" may be lasting but it is not perpetual. Personally, I have continued my respect for Kid Damon and his cadre, talking to them in cc and always avoiding insulting them for their choices. However, they pushed the rest of the clan (those who enjoyed warring, like me and Lit and D12, just who weren't so rabid about it) off the warring boat and left us for dead in the water. I will will always be friendly with those who left, but I prefer to consider "friends" people who have stood by our side in a moment of crisis. :|

Megaman0exe - June 19, 2009 03:25 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Golden arm42 @ Jun 18 2009, 10:57 PM)
QUOTE (red ring 95 @ Jun 19 2009, 02:44 AM)
they are friends, doesnt everyone think they deserve to be treated better?

"Friendship" may be lasting but it is not perpetual. Personally, I have continued my respect for Kid Damon and his cadre, talking to them in cc and always avoiding insulting them for their choices. However, they pushed the rest of the clan (those who enjoyed warring, like me and Lit and D12, just who weren't so rabid about it) off the warring boat and left us for dead in the water. I will will always be friendly with those who left, but I prefer to consider "friends" people who have stood by our side in a moment of crisis. :|

:'( So I'm not your friend? I didn't even know this was going to happen.

Ritalin11 - June 19, 2009 03:35 AM (GMT)
That hurts man...

red ring 95 - June 19, 2009 03:56 AM (GMT)
*sigh*

see what i mean golden? they made their choices, and people are making them feel bad for it. most didnt know it was leading to a crisis, it just happened that way.

god i cant think right now... ill try for another post in a bit...

Starwolf Ftw - June 19, 2009 01:27 PM (GMT)
So as long as I'm not under you in the same banner, we are not friends... Smooth.. >_>

Clans are supposed to be a group of those united for the same reasons, whether it be for warring or for having a community, but when a member's wants are different then the clan's, they have a right to leave. Still, you should give them the respect the same way they have given you respect for the past few months.

Lord - June 19, 2009 05:25 PM (GMT)
i agree with everything thats said. golden what your talking bout is kinda like best friends? and star ur right too. but all in all, i think were all still "friends" we may not talk to each other as much, but were still friends. i consider damon my friend event hough me pisses me off sometimes and he did leave yes, but he left for his own good reason, thats ok i understand that, im not gonna not be his friend just for that. other peopl like kerk, and ppl that joined damon or left for another clan, i still consider most of them friends, some i might not be friends with anymore because of the reason they left, and what they said as they were leaving, im not pointing any fingers. but if they leave like that, lying or saying total bull shet bout AL then no i wont be their friend anymore...probably.

red ring 95 - June 20, 2009 07:06 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Starwolf Ftw @ Jun 19 2009, 08:27 AM)
So as long as I'm not under you in the same banner, we are not friends... Smooth.. >_>

Clans are supposed to be a group of those united for the same reasons, whether it be for warring or for having a community, but when a member's wants are different then the clan's, they have a right to leave. Still, you should give them the respect the same way they have given you respect for the past few months.

^^ exactly my point, thank you star.




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